As we endure changes and troubles which creep into our lives wether it’s or fault or not you need friends and family to help you work through them. There are many who will give you the advice you seek to work things out, and some will tell you things to just get you out of the way!
Some are envious and will look like they have compassion on you and really they are happy that you are going through what you are going through. Some are genuinely concern for your state of well being and want to honestly help!
Discerning both of these types of people is not easy, but you can! Take each word and compare them back to them. Look at where they have been and see there track record!
As I work out my issues I have to listen to myself first then understand why I am here and why I must face it head on. So I pray for both types. That God will help me discern and to bless both as he sees fit!
God bless
N4KMA