There are times we have to step back and let people walk a certain times alone. Why? They have to discover who they are and where they are going in life. As a father I know that I can not teach my son everything. Even when I do advise him of certain things that he should do, or steps to take, I can only hope that he will. I know that if he is like me when I was his age, he will make the mistake and remember when my dad advised me on it.
It happens with friends as well. There are for many reasons friends that will ask you for advice and then act on it in the different direction. And I have to say that I do not know every answer and I know many people will not either. But when you see someone just spiraling out of control who will not listen or take your warnings. You have to step back and let that person no matter how much you love them, fall and hope that they will learn from the fall.
Too many times I know that if we were to help the person all the time, they in the long run will not learn to valuable the life that God has given them to live on this earth. We all make mistakes and when we do we have to correct or accept the consequences. Times are not they greatest at the moment and I know we need to help one another. In certain cases we should do what we can when deemed doable. Sadly sometimes we need to step back and let them do what they will do.
With always praying that God will grant them wisdon in every step of their lives.
God bless…..
N4KMA